I’ve realized a few things as of late, you have total control over how you live your life, maybe not where you’ve been but definitely where your headed. You have control over who is in your life, stays and who you want out. The hardest thing is knowing who is dragging you down but can’t filter them out because your lifetime friends or even family. I have family that are cancerous. They are the ones that are comfortable where they’re at, see you growing and pull you back down. Over the last decade my trips back home have not been about what I’ve achieved or my successes but how my weight has fluctuated. I’m talking about surrounding yourself with people that encourage growth and personal development Instead of finding irrelevant remarks to make you feel insecure. You will know who needs gone, be honest with yourself, you owe you that much. When you find your team. move forward, and find that you will move freely now your without dead weight. I have and I’m 10kgs lighter.