What a start to life with my beautiful partner. Isn’t it just all laughs and giggles? Smiles and skittles?
I wish I could say that was going somewhere. But no! Not far off but not that close either. We’ve been living together for a little over 3 months now and it’s been a mixed bag. I absolute love having her with me. My night warmth and my morning coffee. My on going movie date and my dinner double. It’s incred. I know your thinking so what’s the problem. Well let me tell you.
She hadn’t long moved in before she fell pregnant. Yes we are having a baby. So exited it’s not even funny. We were so made up we continued to try even though bullets hit target. But then came the morning…oh I mean, the all day sickness😳 she was practically bed ridden for couple months it was horrible to see. We as men will never understand the full extent of what our opposite sex go through. Its incredible to think that while my partner is standing, cuddling, talking, laying walking next to me there is a little human being been formed inside of her. It’s mind blowing.
So as you can imagine our lives have already changed. I quickly had to become a partner, the cleaner, the help, the cook, a mentor to her son ( whom is not very cooperative ) but is slowly learning all while trying to hold down a job. It wasn’t tough but it was definitely not that easy. Appreciating what my partner was going through made me get on with things with little stress. It really tests character. But my love for my better half and my unborn child overpowers any challenges. We have not long had our 12 week scan so things are looking great. The gorgeous other half of me seems to be doing heaps better and looks like she’s on the up. Positive signs for us so positive thinking and time to enjoy the pregnancy together. Life living together I can say is rewarding yet takes some getting use to. I don’t think you can ever really imagine or have any idea of what it’s like until you actually move in together. Especially when you both come from a different upbringing. And then throw in a little kid in the mix. It’s not smooth sailing. The thing is to both be open minded and finding a common ground is vital. Understanding each other and communication is key. Changes will have to be made but talking through things every step of the way has proven us to be the solution. We are still adapting to our new life together but I can assure you the journey is wonderful. And what’s better is I get to do it with my best friend. She is awesome I feel for her though, it’s been a big move and she has gone straight in to it. She’s strong though. We’ll get through this together. Now hope fully she can relax and enjoy walking round with a bump.

The last supper

If today was your last day what would be your final request? 

1000 Big Mac burgers? A meal with the queen, one last watch of your favorite movie with a buffet of pizza and fries? A visit from Barrack Obama ? Who would you see what secrets will you reveal? You only have 24 hours to do what you want, kiss who you want or spend it by yourself your choice. 

How would you spend it? 

Crazy aye. The thing about this is in reality you’ll never know when you’ll get your last 24hrs. 

Spend your time wisely for tomorrow will always take care of itself. 

# – 7

I see people who don’t see me.

I hear those who don’t speak to me.

I love people who don’t like me.

I give hours to those who don’t give me a second.

I believe them who don’t trust me.

I give to those that a greedy.

I forgive them that hate me. 

I trust in thee that created me. 

Because of thee,

I live, 

eternally.

The benefits of music 

Music for kids is so beneficial I find, to all aspects in there lives. Talking, communicating, confidence, a new skill and not to mention the many other benefits it brings to a childs development. I recently came across this youtube page of a piano teacher who specializes in making learning fun and after much success in her private lessons she has just released a online starter course for kids to learn to play the piano.. I wish I had this as a kid – check it out and maybe head over to her website and get the course.. I’m heading there now 🙂 

Let me know how you get on😀

#poem

I breathe because I have breath in me. I’m alive because I’m living. I’m greatful because I’m alive. 

I’m rich because i care. I’m happy because i love, I’m wealthy because I share.

My soul crys peace my heart longs for joy. My spirit weeps kindness my love I love the least.