Final countdown

What if you were told you had one year to live – would you not put aside all your worries, troubles, finances, stress and make the most of your last year.. Do everything you wanted to do before your time came. Sometimes we are too caught up with bills, society and life as it stands, rather than living our lives the way we want to live it. 

If this year you can live like it was your last, I guarantee it will be the best. If you can tick a few things off your bucket list this year, 2017 would be a blast.. I have, I now live in Europe 

Work to live, don’t live to work.

Most of us bring our work and jobs home, we live and breathe it. Why, it should be a small part of who and what we are. Make your work, work for you. 

Don’t let it define you. If you’ve had a bad day in the office so what. 

Turn up tomorrow and make it a better one. Don’t dwell on it, be happy that you have a job. Let it be a part of you not the best of you. Certainly don’t let it be the all of you.

Taking time out.

It’s so important to take time out for yourself. A lot of people are afraid of being alone, or don’t enjoy their own company, scared of silence. How are you meant to hear yourself think with so much racket around? Be strong enough to break from routine, friends, company to breathe in your own thoughts an ideas. Learn to have a conversation with yourself. Regroup, Rectify, reiterate your life at this point. Make sure it’s in order according to you. Take time out to invest in yourself, introduce yourself to yourself before you say hi to someone new.

It’s a mistake until it’s a piss-take.

Mistakes… big or small, everyone makes them. I’ve made my fair share, I will go on to say there’s more to come. There’s a couple I keep making that is starting to annoy the shit out of me, just when I think I’ve got it sorted I slip up. Things happen for a reason but only when you come to realise what that reason is. I will rectify it and not let it control me. I will fall again but I will continue to address it as it comes until it is completely gone I will work on it. It’s only a mistake if you learn from it, gain from it otherwise it’s just a bad habit.
If you mis the first take and get it on the 2nd, third or 4th it’s a mistake but if you miss it completely it’s a pisstake

Being a better you not a better someone else.

It amazes me how many people try to compete with you. Wether it be your car, your house, what you wear or how much you earn. You know how hard you work to get what you got. Compete with yourself and enjoy the challenge of being a better you, that’s what it’s about. Being happy within yourself. Grow because you are better then the person you were before now and not because you want to be better then the next person. Material things don’t guarantee happiness, but being happy because you’re living life for you does. 

How much do you value your relationship 

If social media is single handedly the number one relationship killer today. Why are we still on it. Do we not value our relationships more then we do our likes and follows. Are we willing to risk our relationship even though we know the potential damage social media can have. We all know it’s influence yet find it hard to log out. Can you honestly say you can manage both a relationship and social media and make them work.. if so.. for how long…